by isabella Stoloff | Nov 29, 2015 | Energy Healing
In today’s world of worry we do not know which way to turn. There is so much information. So much is people telling us what to do, what to think or how to feel. Some of us may have been out of work for a while, unable to find a job. Some of us may feel stuck in relationships that no longer serve us. Our teens may seem out of control and unruly.
How do we step out of how we are feeling and create a good life?
I was one of those unruly teens. I had a really hard time with life and wanted out of my home at a very young age. I ran away and created a life filled with pain and misery. I think back and wonder if I had just one adult that I could talk to before I turned my life turned inside out would it have made a difference.
Today I work with families to create wholeness. Teens listen to me because I listen to them. I have been there and can relate to what’s going on with them.
Our children are magical beings that need space to grow.
It is our job to teach them, but it is also our job to listen.
Listen to your children and grow along with them.
I use energy medicine to heal the light body. I can assist your families to get unstuck, to stop the loop that keeps you in the same old patterns.
Change your thinking and stop the worry. Only then can you live the life you were born to live.
Find yourself in the moment…ask yourself…what can I do to make myself more light today? What thought…burden… or memory can I ask to be lifted?
Then as you release that thought, fill your body with golden light….and SHINE!
by isabella Stoloff | Apr 18, 2015 | Energy Healing
Hello Tribe!
This New Moon Energy is amazingly light filled! Can you feel it? If you remember my forecast for 2015, February brought us blasts of light. If you had been feeling the vibe since 2012 then your work may have seemed easier. There may have been highs and lows, but the lows were not devastating, and the highs felt like waves of sunshine over your souls. Now March had its darkness, and it may have felt as though a heavy cloud was upon us. Perhaps it brought to the surface old behaviors that needed to be released, old friends and family we could no longer relate to. But April my friends is allowing us to take flight and expand like never before. The clearer you keep your thoughts, the higher the vibration inside your cells will become. If you are still feeling heavy have a fire ceremony to clear out the old and create space for the new! Keep shifting your consciousness, and hold a positive light deep inside your soul, now shine that light for the world to see.
Use this New Moon Energy to make a list and DREAM BIG! MANIFEST YOUR HEARTS DESIRES!
We are the creator…dance… sing…and feel the LOVE!
I will be traveling through the UK & Ibiza in May.
Please keep an eye out for the locations of my Earth Healing Ceremonies, and
contact me for Skype sessions-
Together we will tune into this amazing time!
by isabella Stoloff | Apr 7, 2015 | Energy Healing
If you are like me you are what I call a “feeler healer”. Since we can feel what is going on with our loved ones and the planet, this can affect our mood. Many of us are experiencing this right now. Some great tips are to stay in the moment, enjoy what’s right in front of us and stay grateful. If we stop for a moment and live our life to the fullest we will be less likely to get caught up in the emotion that is running our planet.
Let us learn together how to hold space for our planet. You may ask yourself, what does it mean to hold space? I look at it like a large expansion of our beings to encompass and support that which we are holding space for.
See yourself in a golden bubble and open your heart, think of stability and support, imagine you are surrounded by your guides, and tune into your inner universal wisdom, breath into that space. Then imagine the expansion happening, send your golden light to any place on the planet you feel your support is most needed. This is the way we will learn to connect and co-create together!
by isabella Stoloff | Jan 15, 2015 | Energy Healing
Dear Women, we have been asleep for too long. We have allowed our power to be stripped away and we have given- till we can give no more. Many have come before us and fought for our right to vote, to speak and to be heard. But there is still more to be done. We cannot lie down now. We are in a time of revolution and expansion. As the caregivers we will be the ones to birth a new generation, a generation of balanced, thoughtful children, children who will trust themselves, and listen to their intuition. Those children will stand up for their rights as humans, their right for clean water, clean air, and clean food. But it has to start with us. The women.
I write this letter to all who will listen, those of you who have been awake for some time, and those of you still asleep. For those of you who have found your voice, and those of you still seeking a way out of the lives you have created for yourselves.
First become totally honest with yourself, and those around you. Stop hiding. Stop lying. Start to speak your truth and trust the truth you speak. Learn how to listen to your intuition by hearing your inner voice. Once you clear the clutter of your mind you can hear your truth and start to see the signs of synchronicity all around you. This is why meditation is so important, for it is only when we clear our minds that our higher selves can be heard.
Mediation can be done in a variety of ways. It does not have to be traditional, as that does not work for everyone. Explore different ways of quieting your mind and releasing the judgments. Start by listening to your thoughts. Hear yourself, listen to what you are thinking, and if you do not like what you hear change the thought; simple as that. Once you gain control of your mind, your intuition will deepen. As women one of our biggest attributes is our intuition. Allow this to be your guide and teach your children to do the same. Ask yourself, “How do I feel about this?” Your feelings will never lie to you.
We are in a great time of awakening on the planet, of learning how to balance the masculine and feminine within. I believe by doing this we are helping Mother Earth to balance her energies as well. Expand your consciousness and live outside the box.
This year of the horse has been the fastest year yet. I have faced some of my biggest challenges, and come out a strong person for it. The year started out a bit rocky as you can tell by my early YouTube videos from the beginning of 2014. But by March I was up and running and I have been busier and happier than I have ever been in my life. I have trusted my intuition more and more, and learned how to follow energy. I look for the synchronicity life brings me every day and I stay grateful.
I recently traveled to Bulgaria and England to do earth healings and ceremony. One of my teachers Marcella Lobos gifted a group of women with the Womb Keeper Rites in Joshua Tree right before my journey, http://theriteofthewomb.com and at each ceremony I held after, I installed them for women as they were gifted to me. The rite of the womb allows women to release pain and suffering and embrace the truth of who they really are, life giving creatures, abundant and beautiful.
As women we have so much to offer. It all begins with us.
Be kind, compassionate, and nurturing with yourself, just as you would another. Face yourself and love what you see. Find the jewel in your soul and let it shine. Then raise a generation of intuitive humans, humans that love in order to make the world a better place.
With much Gratitude & Light
Shaman Isabella
Published in Awareness Magazine 2014/15
by isabella Stoloff | Jan 4, 2015 | Energy Healing
Are you the type of person who has always trusted yourself? Then this is not the article for you. I am here to speak to those like myself, those people who gave their power away and trusted everyone BUT themselves. Those of us that thought everyone else’s opinions were better than their own.
For many years I was a victim. I placed myself in situations where others controlled my life. I felt I always made bad decisions and so I stopped making them. I would ask at least 3, if not more people what I should do and then I would pick the one that sounded best.
In 1991 I began to step into my power and went back to school. This was not easy. As a single mother of 3 trying to manage was incredibly difficult, but I did it. Something inside of me was crying out to be heard, and although I did not know it at the time, this was the beginning of my spiritual awakening.
I read books on positive affirmations, and made new choices in the way I thought about myself, I did a lot of writing. I even burned some of it not knowing at the time it was a shamanic tool for release. I began to feel better, but I still did not trust my decision making process. No one had ever talked to me about my intuition or how to access it.
In 2006, my whole world changed. As I entered the world of Shamanism I found I was a feeler healer, as I know many of us are. Learning how to trust my intuition became a daily practice. I would make decisions based on how I felt. If I was wrong, I would not beat myself up, I would simply say, “That was a lesson”. Each lesson helped me to gain a better understanding of myself and how I worked.
I began treating myself like my own best friend. I spoke kindly about myself and to myself, and became hyper aware of my thoughts, words and actions. I became totally honest with everyone around me, most of all myself.
Once you become totally honest with yourself and take inventory of your life you can look around and see what is no longer working for you. In today’s world there are so many choices, and so much technology, we are getting further and further way from whom we really are.
Find yourself in the moment and ask yourself what truly makes you happy. Is it the new gadget, app, bigger house, or car? Are you looking outside of yourself to find happiness?
We can only truly be happy when we go inside ourselves and look around. Take a moment and breathe. Listen to your mind. What is the one thing you worry about the most? This is the thing you are giving your power away to. Stop giving it power. Breathe and shift your consciousness. Only you have the power to change your mind. The moment you decided to trust yourself, and become more conscious in your everyday living, the happier you will become.
Take stock of your life and how you want to live it. Clear out the clutter and get back to the basics. YOU are the most important person… YES you! You are the only one who can provide yourself with the comfort and care you deserve.
Once we start being kind to ourselves our intuition grows and we make decisions based on what’s best for us.
Make a commitment to yourself. Write a contract to be more loving, honest and compassionate with yourself. Those around you may have a hard time with the new you, but the real friends will stay around and admire your personal growth.
Trusting ourselves and teaching our children to do the same will grow a generation of leaders and our world will be a better place to live.
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Shaman Isabella Stoloff founded the Orange County Healing Center. She has a full time practice and travels all over the world teaching and leading ceremony.
