Trusting in Yourself

Are you the type of person who has always trusted yourself? Then this is not the article for you. I am here to speak to those like myself, those people who gave their power away and trusted everyone BUT themselves. Those of us that thought everyone else’s opinions were better than their own.

For many years I was a victim. I placed myself in situations where others controlled my life. I felt I always made bad decisions and so I stopped making them. I would ask at least 3, if not more people what I should do and then I would pick the one that sounded best.

In 1991 I began to step into my power and went back to school. This was not easy. As a single mother of 3 trying to manage was incredibly difficult, but I did it. Something inside of me was crying out to be heard, and although I did not know it at the time, this was the beginning of my spiritual awakening.
I read books on positive affirmations, and made new choices in the way I thought about myself, I did a lot of writing. I even burned some of it not knowing at the time it was a shamanic tool for release. I began to feel better, but I still did not trust my decision making process. No one had ever talked to me about my intuition or how to access it.

In 2006, my whole world changed. As I entered the world of Shamanism I found I was a feeler healer, as I know many of us are. Learning how to trust my intuition became a daily practice. I would make decisions based on how I felt. If I was wrong, I would not beat myself up, I would simply say, “That was a lesson”. Each lesson helped me to gain a better understanding of myself and how I worked.

I began treating myself like my own best friend. I spoke kindly about myself and to myself, and became hyper aware of my thoughts, words and actions. I became totally honest with everyone around me, most of all myself.
Once you become totally honest with yourself and take inventory of your life you can look around and see what is no longer working for you. In today’s world there are so many choices, and so much technology, we are getting further and further way from whom we really are.

Find yourself in the moment and ask yourself what truly makes you happy. Is it the new gadget, app, bigger house, or car? Are you looking outside of yourself to find happiness?

We can only truly be happy when we go inside ourselves and look around. Take a moment and breathe. Listen to your mind. What is the one thing you worry about the most? This is the thing you are giving your power away to. Stop giving it power. Breathe and shift your consciousness. Only you have the power to change your mind. The moment you decided to trust yourself, and become more conscious in your everyday living, the happier you will become.

Take stock of your life and how you want to live it. Clear out the clutter and get back to the basics. YOU are the most important person… YES you! You are the only one who can provide yourself with the comfort and care you deserve.

Once we start being kind to ourselves our intuition grows and we make decisions based on what’s best for us.
Make a commitment to yourself. Write a contract to be more loving, honest and compassionate with yourself. Those around you may have a hard time with the new you, but the real friends will stay around and admire your personal growth.

Trusting ourselves and teaching our children to do the same will grow a generation of leaders and our world will be a better place to live.

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Shaman Isabella Stoloff founded the Orange County Healing Center. She has a full time practice and travels all over the world teaching and leading ceremony.

Trust the Divine Light that you are!

Trust the Divine Light that you are!

People come to me from all walks of life. Regardless of background or religion, we are all faced with the same types of challenges.

PTSD-Loneliness-Uncertainty-Loss-Stress-Abandonment-Depression-Anxiety-Fear, Low self-worth, not good enough, victim.

Many people have an inability to move forward or are stuck in a cycle of old patterns and addiction, desperate for change.

Many of the problems we are faced with are connected to our ancestors and our past. You will learn how we repeat the patterns of our parents and grandparents. The Spiritual Healings I give, teach you how to transform your life and unwind old patterns, pain and suffering. The stories that once held you back in the past melt away, and underneath you will find your authentic self!
Dancing in the Sun
Shamanic Healings assist you in connecting with your inner wisdom so you can live the life you were meant to live.

Tune in and listen to the divine essence of who you truly are.

Our thoughts create our reality

Our thoughts create our reality

Did you know your thoughts become things?

Behind every thought is energy. Energy follows thought.

It creates a momentum.

Whatever you think about you get more of.

What we think about also effects the way we feel.

How do your thoughts make YOU feel?

The things we say to ourselves and the way we feel create our reality.
Communicating with Nature
I teach you how to think more positively moment by moment. My sessions clear away the negativity so you can have the space to create new positive thoughts and vibrations.
I give you the ability to let go of your old stories and shift your perception with ease and grace.

Change your thinking, change your life!

Day 18 of Momentum

What is holding you back today? What is in your way? Any idea you may have of a situation or a challenge you are going through or facing is just a thought, that is all, a thought. Whether or not you choose to focus on that thought is your choice. Even if you are having the worst of luck it is how you think about your situation that matters most. Spend today focusing on something other than the challenge, or situation you are faced with. Focus on the light and the warmth of the light. Think about something positive, something that makes you feel great. Everyday is such a precious gift. If we see each day that way instead of finding all that is wrong with it we will change our situations and things that used to feel like challenges will fade away. If you have been making strides toward changing your patterns, day 18 is sure to bring you more energy and positive thoughts. Take some time for yourself and feel this momentum of change coming into your head, in your crown chakra filling your entire body. We have great assistance available to us at this time from whatever Universal wisdom you believe in. Whether it be a Guru, Buddha, Jesus, Mary, God, your Higher self, Goddesses, Angels, Guides, Transcended masters, whatever you call it they are all here just waiting to be asked for help. They want to assist you in any way they can. See beyond your box. Break free from the conventional way of being. Feel this magnificent energy flowing all around your light body. Feel this energy deep in your soul and manifest from your creative center today. Articles and Blogs written by Isabella Stoloff founder of the OC Healing Center. Here you will find many meditations and insights from clearing your energy body to creating the life you want to live.