Good Vibes Gatherings

Good Vibes Gatherings

As the Good Vibes Gatherings are shaping up, I am reminded to sit still and listen. It is in the listening that I hear spirit.

As I embarked upon this last weekend I knew it might be challenging. It has been awhile since I’ve done group gatherings outside of the Orange County Healing Center, other than down the street at BOTI studio (If you haven’t gone to check them out, Google what they are up to) and I wasn’t sure what to expect.

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At the OC Yoga festival, I found a lovely group of open-minded individuals who were ready to step beyond their minds and share their hearts. The one message that truly stood out to me was… how we give our power away… the power of love…

Since I am teaching to love yourself as you love another, I posed this question, “How do you show your love to another?” What struck me hard was this answer, by more than one person, “I try to make them feel special, or worthy…like they are enough.

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I cannot tell you how many relationships I was in where I would see a man’s potential, who he could be, rather than who he was. I poured my love into him hoping he would change. Of course this never worked, and I was left with feelings of disappointment or anger, and feelings of not being good enough. Or, even friendships where I was always giving, left with the feeling of being taken advantage of. Once I learned to trust and love myself more these types of relationship’s changed.

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After everyone shared, I came back to this point, “If we do not have feelings of worthiness ourselves…if we do not know how special we are… if we cannot feel our own love, this love we pour into others… how can we ever attract it?”

The day after the festival I went to Whittier to hold the next Gathering. Again, I was a bit nervous, as I did not know the type of folks that would come. After all, this was in a restaurant in downtown Whittier! If you haven’t been to the Modern Shaman Kitchen on Greenleaf, you are missing out! It’s totally VEGAN! In WHIITER!!! And they happen to be a couple of groovy people I met many years ago when I did an opening ceremony for a friend in Laguna.

THIS GROUP!!! OMG!!!

People who I’ve never met before open to a group healing (Which, BTW, I had no idea I was doing. I had a whole other class prepared for them). They bared their souls with one another. With open hearts they wanted to feel the shift… and they did. Just like the group Saturday, these loving hearts were ready to LOVE THEMSELVES MORE! The energy was beautiful and we all left glowing.

That morning, before the Whittier gathering, a friend in Durango, CO. reached out. She wanted me to come and bless her land and have a gathering around her medicine wheel. We had been talking about me coming for a couple of years and this

time I said yes! On August 11th, I will be with a whole new group of souls ready to love and open up their hearts to the infinite wisdom within.

When we fall more in love with ourselves, our world will change.

I look forward to being with you in ceremony soon…

Shaman Isabella

The Healers Journey

The Healers Journey

By Shaman Isabella

Throughout my existence I knew there was more to life than what I was currently experiencing. I always felt the Universe had a plan for me but by the age of 46 I felt it had not been fully revealed. Timing is everything and life is funny it has way of leading us to where we need to be, even though we might not know it at the time.

In 2006, my mother was in a home and had been there for a year and a half. I was living in Moscow Idaho with my teenage daughter having just graduated with my Master of Fine Arts. Although I had come far in my life, I still felt very stuck.

One night my mother came to me in a lucid dream state and said, “Get me out of here.” I remember saying, “How can I get you out of there when I can’t get myself out of here?”

After that my mother was in my dreams quite a bit. Even though we had our difficulties growing up she and I were extremely close. She was the one who spoke of fairies, past-lives, astrology and psychics. I loved her dearly and still do.

After a month of these dreams I called an old friend who told me I needed to work with a Shaman.

I had never really heard of Shamans other than Native American Indians. But I felt so unhappy at that point I was willing to do anything. So I made an appointment with a woman in Chile, not even truly believing if over the phone would work. My friend had explained that it was just energy and since I believed in energy I trusted the process.

The Shaman found a contract I had made with my mother in a past-life to never leave her side. She asked me if I was willing to break the contract. This was very hard for me as I felt I may never see my mother again in future lives if I did. Something inside of me was stronger than the thought, so I said yes.

Within one month my mother transitioned peacefully in her sleep.

A few months later after having a liver biopsy I almost died. The doctor did not leave me on my side long enough and I bled 4 units of blood into my belly. The pain was intense and I was admitted to ICU. It took months to recover and at some point I realized I was reliving my husbands death.

In 1987 my husband died of cancer of the colon. While at his bedside during his final moments I listened to his labored breath. When he inhaled for the last time his spirit went out of his body and into mine. At the time I had no idea that had occurred, but over the years, I knew he was with me. I had even gone once to a psychic that asked me who the dead person was. I knew it was him. She told me she could only place him in a room for 6 months, but could not get rid of him. I made peace with the fact that this was how I would live my life until my near death experience.

I called my Shaman and told her the story. When she finally extracted his spirit from my energy field I threw up. I was finally free.

When I moved back to California in late 2006, I began taking Shaman classes and learning more about releasing energy. My experiences were so profound there was no denying energy medicine worked.

I now feel my whole life lead up to this moment. All my challenges and hardships brought me to where I am today.

I am grateful for my story, as it is my story and I worked hard for it.

There was a calling and I stepped onto the path and have never looked back. If you feel the healers path is one for you, I invite you to take this short quiz. If you answer yes to 2 or more of these questions you may want to seek out a training program that suits you.

You have to be ready to do the inner work as my feeling is we must heal ourselves in order to become clear channels for others.

Do people often come to you for advice? YES NO
Are you aware of how others are feeling? YES NO
When you walk into a room can you sense the energy? YES NO
Have you always felt there was something more for you in this life? YES NO
Do you want to help others and make the world a better place? YES NO

If you have answered yes to 2 or more of these questions than the healers path is the one for you.

When I first started my training it was not to become a healer, but that is what was written in the stars.

To awaken your inner healer and learn Shamanic techniques of self-discovery, empowerment and healings click here.

 Many Blessings~

Simple Tips to Help with the Stress of Our World

Simple Tips to Help with the Stress of Our World

Connecting to the spiritual world is difficult in the world of technology.  Listen as Isabella joins Andrea to discuss how to navigate technology, deal with stress, and trust yourself on the “Naturally Savvy” radio show.

Here are some tips from Shaman Isabella Stoloff to navigate the modern world with children…

  • Set an example by putting your devices away when spending time with others, including your children.
  • Monitor what your kids post on social media. Be a good role model with your own posts.
  • Teach your kids the responsibility of what they post on social media.
  • Notice how many hours per day your children are playing video games and what games they’re playing.
  • Work on social interactions and interpersonal relations. Have conversations with your kids.

It’s also important to learn to listen to intuition. Stop relying on the Internet for every piece of advice and trust your gut. Tune in to your inner thoughts.


 

WAKING UP

WAKING UP

“WAKING UP” by Shaman Isabella Stoloff
— As seen in GlitterLodge Magazine —

For years I slept and allowed mainstream media to feed my soul. It told me what to wear and what to eat and what toys to buy my children. Television gave me a sense of security when my mom was at work and allowed me to zone out as I grew into an adult. The magazines shouted from their stands about movie stars lives and the latest weight loss fad. I worried about what other people thought of me, was afraid to dance in public and felt less than my peers.

I was a giver. I would bend over backwards to help you and focus my attention on the one person who didn’t like me. I was self conscious, unaware and lost. The funny thing is I had no idea that all of these things were a distraction from myself. It never occurred to me that I was escaping from looking within.

As an empath I had no emotional boundaries and spent much of my time worried about how others felt. My mind was constantly full, bouncing from one thought to another. I had no idea where I ended and you began. In relationships I was the pleaser, molding myself to be what you wanted. But in my late 30’s I found myself exhausted and spent. I had hit an emotional wall.

I wasn’t raised with any foundation in religion. My mother felt it best to raise me with knowledge of all the religions, not focusing on any one specific type. At the time this was confusing but now I am grateful for I see the common threads and have a strong spiritual connection.

Feeling the world and what others are going through is a blessing and a curse. The curse is being unsure of whether or not the feeling is yours, and the blessing is being able to see things from many different points of view. But in order to get to this point you must wake up and see who you really are.

When I fully woke up and began to see how I work in the world, I was able to put my life into perspective. I began with journaling. I would write out all that had happened in my life and at times I would burn the writings. This was way before Shamanism came into my life and I learned the power of writing and releasing. I forgave myself and others for the pain caused and learned to turn guilt into gratitude. I worked with my mind, finding ways to reprogram my thinking. And I began to love myself.

Learning a new way to walk in the world can be challenging but it is worth it. You are the most important person. You matter. And what you think of yourself is by far more important than what society says.  Wake up to yourself and release judgments.  Watch your words and thoughts. Become the observer of your life and shift what no longer serves you. All of these techniques will bring you closer to yourself and your spirituality.

If you are a giver, learn to become open to receive. Know that when you receive you are still giving and this is the law of the Universe, to be in the flow.

When I stepped into my calling as a Shaman I had no idea it would evolve in the way it has. But I was open to receive, I was open to myself and I was ready to do the inner work.

If you are just waking up or consider yourself awake and don’t feel fully connected yet, begin empowering yourself. Use positive, loving self-talk along with releasing techniques to clear your energy body. Make peace with your past and see things from a birds eye view. You have power over your life, your truly do.  Find what makes you happy and pay attention to the moment. By learning to stay present you will find an awakened sense of being.

Remember your uniqueness in the world and wake up to your divine sense of self. See your inner light as a beautiful energy and attach that light firmly to the front of your spine. Ground this light into the Earth and know you are loved

~Shaman Isabella


Isabella founded the Orange County Healing Center in 2009, is a graduate of the Four Winds Society and has a Masters degree. She and her daughter created the Good Vibes positive affirmation deck for people to deeply connect with themselves and the world around. Shaman Isabella also leads people on spiritual journeys, provides one-on-one spiritual healing, travels to give talks and do workshops and has training programs. More details on this at www.orangecountyhealingcenter.com.

 Transforming my life has been a passion of mine for over 20 years.
Assisting others in doing the same is my mission.

 To book an appointment with Isabella today, call 714-603-8624.


Radio MD Naturally Savvy – GOOD VIBES DAILY

Radio MD Naturally Savvy – GOOD VIBES DAILY

 

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Tune in to Radio MD’s, “Naturally Savvy”, with guest Shaman Isabella Stoloff, and learn how you can use “good vibes” to manifest the life you came here to live!


Your mind can be a treacherous place.  Wherever thought goes, energy follows. Once you’re stuck in a negative vibration and have gone down the rabbit hole, all that rumination takes over… disallowing you from moving forward and creating positive progress.

The problem is compounded by the constant stimuli and access to information in our current society.

How can you stop negative thoughts in their tracks?

Shaman Isabella Stoloff suggests starting with this question: “Is this thought serving me?” The answer is usually no. Being aware can spur you to shift your thoughts to a place of productivity. Essentially, you leave yourself alone and get out of your own way.

Isabella’s Good Vibes Positive Affirmation Cards, which she co-created with her daughter Victoria Craven, help you find those good vibes daily.

Each inspiring card is interwoven with high vibrational energy quotes and step-by-step instructions to assist you in manifesting the life you came here to live. When you release old stories, you create space in your mind to attract your deepest desires.

Listen in as Isabella joins Andrea to discuss the detriment of negative thoughts, as well as how you can shift that which is heavy and unpleasant into positive energy.